Published originally at Common Dreams on March 18, 2023 under Creative Commons CC BY-NC-ND 3.0 license
Hundreds of people hit the streets of Milan, Italy on Saturday to protest the far-right government’s assault on the parental rights of same-sex couples.
“You explain to my son that I am not his mother,” read one woman’s sign, while children wore shirts declaring, “It is love that creates a family.”
Italy legalized same-sex civil unions in 2016, but it stopped short of granting gay and lesbian couples the right to adopt amid opposition from the Catholic Church. Since then, courts have made decisions on a case-by-case basis in response to lawsuits from prospective adoptive parents.
Some municipalities, however, “decided to act unilaterally,” Agence France-PressereportedSaturday. “Milan had been registering children of same-sex couples conceived overseas through surrogacy—which is illegal in Italy—or medically assisted reproduction, which is only available for heterosexual couples.”
“But its center-left mayor Beppe Sala revealed this week that this had stopped after the interior ministry sent a letter insisting that the courts must decide,” the news agency noted.
In a podcast, Sala said that “it is an obvious step backwards from a political and social point of view.”
“I put myself in the shoes of those parents who thought they could count on this possibility in Milan,” he added, vowing to fight back.
“This government is the maximum expression of homophobia.”
AFP reported that “about 20 children are waiting to be registered in Milan,” citing leading LGBTQ+ rights campaigner Fabrizio Marrazzo. “A mother or father who is not legally recognized as their child’s parent can face huge bureaucratic problems, with the risk of losing the child if the registered parent dies or the couple’s relationship breaks down.”
Earlier this week, Marrazzo said that “when a law is unjust and discriminatory those who engage in politics must have the courage to disobey it.”
In the words of Gabriele Piazzoni, secretary-general of Arcigay, “The ban is one of the most concrete manifestations of the fury that the right-wing majority is unleashing against LGBTI people.”
Last year, before she was elected to lead Italy’s far-right coalition government, Prime Minister Giorgia Meloni of the fascist Brothers of Italy Party said in a speech, “Yes to natural families, no to the LGBT lobby!”
Earlier this week, The Associated Pressreported, “a Senate commission blocked an attempt to recognize birth certificates of the children of same-sex couples issued by other E.U. states.”
Alessia Crocini, president of Rainbow Families, warned that “this government is the maximum expression of homophobia.”
“Meloni says that for a child to grow up well, they need a mother and father, even if decades of research say otherwise,” Crocini told AP. “It is insulting to hundreds of thousands of families with two same-sex parents.”